HOW TO WRITE A GOOD WEDDING SPEECH

February 19, 2025

Giving a speech at a wedding is a special honour, whether you’re the best man, maid of honour, a family member, or even the bride or groom. A well-crafted wedding speech can bring laughter, tears, and create a moment that will be cherished forever. If you’ve been given the task of delivering a speech, here’s how to make it memorable, heartfelt, and engaging.

1. Start with a Strong Opening

The only time people aren’t daydreaming is when they hear a good story. Start strong, a quick story, a funny anecdote, a heartfelt sentiment, or a quote about love (that suits the couple). A good introduction gets the audience’s attention.

2. Keep It Personal and Authentic

Your speech should reflect your unique relationship with the couple. Share a memory, a meaningful moment, or inside jokes that highlight their love and connection. DO NOT recap their entire life history. Do not wander off topic. Avoid generic statements. Think heartfelt and genuine.

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3. Balance Humour and Sentiment

A great wedding speech often includes both humour and emotion. Lighthearted jokes or funny stories can keep the audience engaged, but make sure they are appropriate and won’t embarrass the couple (too much). Pair humour with sincere words about what makes their relationship special.

4. Focus on the Couple

While sharing personal stories is important, remember that the speech should celebrate the couple. Talk about their love story, how they complement each other, and what makes them a great match. Give great advice about relationships. Avoid making the speech about yourself.

5. Keep It Concise

Aim to keep your speech between 3-5 minutes. A long ramble can lose the guests attention, especially if there are a lot of speeches. Keep it concise, engaging, and to the point.

6. End with a Toast

Conclude your speech with a heartfelt toast to the couple. You can offer well wishes, a final piece of advice, or a simple celebration of their love. Raise your glass and invite everyone to join in the toast.

7. Practice and Prepare

Practising your speech ahead of time will help you feel more confident and comfortable. Rehearse in front of a mirror, record yourself, or ask a friend for feedback. Familiarity with your speech will help you deliver it naturally and smoothly.

8. End with a hug

Once the toast is done and the everyone is clapping. Go to the couple and give them your biggest, warmest hug. Tell them you love them and wish them well.

Writing a wedding speech doesn’t have to be daunting. By making it personal, heartfelt, and engaging, you’ll create a moment that the couple and guests will remember fondly. Keep it light, sincere, and most importantly, speak from the heart. With a little preparation and practice, you’ll give a speech that truly honours the special occasion.